In 98 years, Dorothy (Guidus) Weichenthal has experienced a roller coaster of experiences. The secret to her long life, she shares, is “to laugh every day.”
Growing up in the Great Depression and World War II
Weichenthal was born in 1926 and raised in Elmira Heights, N.Y., years before sliced bread was invented. She is the granddaughter of Ukrainian immigrants.
Weichenthal grew up during the Great Depression. She recalls listening to the first news reports about the bombing of Pearl Harbor on the radio with her father on Sunday afternoon of Dec. 7, 1941.
Dorothy graduated from high school at 16 and went to an interior design school in New York City during World War II. When the war ended, though, interior design jobs and many others went to the flood of returning servicemen.
A Mushroom Cloud and Marriage
Undeterred, Weichenthal worked hard. She met her future husband, Gerhardt (Gary) Weichenthal in her grandmother’s bar in Elmira. When offered a job in California, Dorothy and a girlfriend drove across the country in 1951. On her way, Dorothy saw the mushroom cloud of a nuclear test.
“It really wasn’t that impressive,” Weichenthal reports.
In love, Gary followed her west and proposed. They were married for 61 years until Gary’s death at age 90 in 2013.
The couple bought a small farm in Avon, NY. They had five children in ten years. While Gary farmed, worked in factories and hauled lumber, Dorothy cared for the children without modern conveniences.
“Mom is a saint. Not because she is perfect, but because she survived raising five children and did and continues to do so much for us. When one of us became ill, all of us became sick,” son David Weichenthal says. “She was always there when we needed her. We drove her to the brink of sanity, but she came back from the brink with humor and music and art.”
“My children are my best friends,” Dorothy says.
Before 911 was invented, her toddler alerted her to a fire in the barn. Dorothy had to call three different fire departments before one would respond. The barn was a total loss.
After being awakened by eager teenagers at 2 a.m. on Christmas morning, Dorothy and Gary created a new family tradition. They opened presents on Christmas Eve before the midnight church service so everyone could sleep in the next day.
Dorothy was never afraid to push for change. Dorothy organized her neighbors to successfully change their road from Swamp Street to Garden Street, a name inspired by Dorothy’s life-long passion.
Buying a Business and Moving to Marion
The Weichenthals moved to Marion, Ohio in the 1973 when they purchased the Beltone Hearing Aid agency. They opened an office on Main Street. Their adult sons cared for the family farm and attended college. Son Doug Weichenthal continues to farm there.
Dorothy loved living in Marion with its plentiful, convenient shopping and friendly neighbors. They built a home on Mayfield Drive and raised their three daughters: Susan, Patty and Joan. In 1980, son David moved his family to Marion to join Beltone.
Thriving in Retirement
In retirement, Dorothy thrived. She started painting, sculpting and wood carving. Her art has graced magazine covers and hung in museums. She won grants to create a painter’s group and classes. She loves square dancing and music, though she prefers Big Band to modern artists.
When the Weichenthals returned to Avon in the 1990s, Dorothy started a writer’s group, which she participates in over Zoom when she is traveling. She wrote a book of poetry. She and Gary enjoyed many Elderhostel educational trips. Water aerobics helped her stay active.
Weichenthal has always loved reading and learning. She recently started Facetiming her children and grandchildren on an iPhone. She uses an iPad to check Facebook. Weichenthal is still a fierce card player, often beating her children and grandchildren at Rummy and Euchre.
While life has not been easy, Dorothy keeps a positive attitude and strong faith.
“Mom has underlying resilient toughness forged by life’s trials,” David said.
